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Delphin du Toit Conflict Mediation

Welcome

Relationship Repairs Available Here

Are You

  • In a strained relationship and it is becoming unbearable, but you don’t just want to walk away?
  • Sinking under the weight of unsaid words and misunderstood deeds?
  • Blowing up in anger at the drop of a hat?
  • Feeling unheard or unloved in a long term relationship?
  • Losing the love for your work? Everybody seems to have a short fuse and being at work is like walking on eggs.
  • New to Canada and sometimes get puzzled and confused due to cultural misunderstandings? You want to learn how to be Canadian, but you don’t want to walk away from the culture from the old country.  
  • Happy to get that promotion, but now your friends, who used to be your teammates seem hostile?
Your choices aren't just black and white

At Work

More than 80% of workplace conflicts are caused and escalated by the ways in which we communicate – and the things we don’t talk about.

It affects not only your ability to work and to feel good about being there, it also affects the way you are with your loved ones.

It affects how you feel about getting up in the morning and how you feel when you get home at night.

Your conflict-related stress from work becomes their family-based stress.

At Home

Are not-listening habits creeping in because you feel you’ve heard it all before? 

Maybe you’re frustrated at your inability to ‘fix’ what’s bothering you or your loved ones.

Has the behavior of your child changed and you don’t know what’s wrong?

Is there an elderly relative that you are thinking of institutionalizing because the family doesn’t know how to cope?

In Relationships

Do you ask “what’s wrong” and the answer is “nothing” and you know that’s not the truth of it?

Are you carrying around unfinished business that eats away at your peace of mind?

Do you have unresolved issues that steal your sleep; giving you bad dreams?

You love them but you can’t handle being alone with them anymore.

There are things you said in anger that you regret.

"Ongoing disagreement comes at a great cost to you and everybody around you"

How much conflict are you tolerating in your life right now?   

How much pain are you carrying as a result of misunderstandings and disagreements?

 

If ‘too much’ is your answer, 

please contact me. I’m here to help.

Handle conflict, have great honest relationships

YOU'RE HERE BECAUSE YOU WANT TO CHANGE THINGS

I offer you a break-through experience which will increase your ability to deal with interpersonal conflict as well as help you in resolving the issue that brought you to me today.

  1. I assist you in generating creative solutions to the problem that caused the conflict that leads to action and results.
  2. I support the restoration and rebuilding of the wounded relationship.
  3. In working with me you strengthen your ability to take care of yourself in an assertive way that builds trust and respect.


Your Call to Action

You arrived here because you were looking for answers.  The next step is to contact me so that you can find out how I can help you.